Breaking the Ice
Breaking the ice between two couples is often deemed as one of the most complex elements of a 
relationship. Talking to women is easy, getting to know her at a deeper level is truly an enigma itself. In the initial phase of the relationship, it is very clear that you can spend long hours with your partner. However, you want to extend just beyond the friendly hug and kiss. Most guys are petrified and befuddled in trying to understand their significant other with small talk. Let’s face it, we run out of words to say. Hence, this higher level of connection has to from an emotional level where both of you can understand each other without exchanging any words.
The key towards getting to know her better consists of many elements. The first and foremost aspect is to make her comfortable with you all the time. Communicate with her through honesty, affection and sympathy. If something is bothering her, ask her and show sympathy with your words and body language. Touch her affectionately can ignite her senses of comfort that might be lacking in her life. The fact that women love to talk about themselves is no joke. Be genuine, humble, and honest with her and watch her open up to you like a book.
The second element towards “breaking the ice” is sparking curiosity in her imagination through confidence. Curiosity truly does wonders because it holds the emerging power to excite imaginations. When a girl thinks you are charming, she is more likely to engage in discussions that are very personal to her. Exciting a girl’s imagination is fascinating because it makes you a very special person from her perspective. When you bring that ability and are focused on having fun, that vibe is indeed infectious.
The final element towards “breaking the ice” is making her feel like a queen on regular days. Do not wait for Valentine’s day or her birthday to show that you want connect with her. Surprise her with flowers, chocolate and most importantly personalized notes that sparks her interest. Leave her a personalized note card at her work desk inviting her for a lunch date or a dinner afterwards. These actions are crucial because they show your charisma but at the same time portray the fact that you love spending time with her. It also “keeps her guessing” which again ignites her senses and allows her to be open about her secret endeavors.
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Henry B. Springs
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“A little sleep is all we’re losing. It’s up to us to do the choosing Let’s make a little magic before the night is through. Make a little magic before the night is through.”
Writer: Hanna Hathaway Carpenter
11 February 2012, 1:15 pmHenry B. Springs
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Writer: John Lennon
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“We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men; and among those fibers, as sympathetic threads, our actions run as causes, and they come back to us as effects.”
Writer: Herman Melville
11 February 2012, 7:07 pmLinda Mills
I think from the girl’s perspective, it is all about thoughtfulness. Quality over quantity. I hope all guys read this!
12 February 2012, 1:11 amHilma Conger
Guys, listen to this advice! It’s not as hard to talk to women as you think.
One thing I would add: while personalized stationery is a great gift that most anyone would welcome, do not give me chocolates if you know I’m trying to lose weight.
12 February 2012, 2:40 amChloe Sullivan- LA, California
As a woman, yes chocolates are expected. But really be romantic and get some personalized stationary. It makes you unique in your own sense and that you care about the relationship.
12 February 2012, 2:51 amLaura Heinz- New York City, New York
I really think it would be a wonderful idea if someone takes chocolates and personalizes them you know? Cute little kisses with flirty notes would suffice.
12 February 2012, 2:57 amWriter4live
Thanks ladies for the advice. Definitely getting some good information here!
12 February 2012, 3:00 amPrettyQueen89
That is an innovative idea Chloe. I would recommend all the guys to take the kisses and have little cute notes attached to them. Perfect for any mood.
12 February 2012, 3:02 amAmanda James
This was a very sentimental article. I think forming bonds is crucial towards getting to know your partner.
12 February 2012, 10:26 pmJenna Allen
I loved the beach picture. Seems like such a romantic spot to go on a date.
12 February 2012, 11:06 pmLinda Mills
Breaking the ice with a quick reminder of how special you are can be extremely pivotal. Take a note, write a cute flirty and watch your relationship grow.
20 February 2012, 11:11 pmChloe Sullivan- LA, California
Well breaking the ice has to consist of many steps yes? Getting to know your special someone at that level means to have a very deep mental connection. A personalized note can work wonders.
20 February 2012, 11:26 pm